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this is real inspirational thank you soul pancake
That's a beautiful way of looking at like!
He's a good storyteller
Beautiful story, beautiful way to look at the world we live in
Looks like a Young Michael Rosen.
This is so important. Thank you for making this Video!!
Can someone please explain to me why you would see happiness as weakness. Whilst i appreciate this video i still don't understand why you would see happiness as a weakness- isn't that what we're all essentially striving for?
People should adopt kids there is too much people on this planet its sad..
This video is so inspiring
What a beautiful story, may God continue to Bless you two soon to be three.
Hahaha wtf i thought i had the video on 1.5 speed
this is amazing
Thanks for reminding me what really matters 🙂
Well done! This story made me so sad…
This kind of title disgusts me.
sending this to all men w fragile masculinity
I got this comment a lot. I've been a pretty optimistic person, and a lot of people saw me as naiive, stupid, or just living with rose-colored glasses. But I learned that it takes a TON of strength to look at hard times and persevere enough to smile, to look at someone rough and think about the pain that probably causes that behavior, etc. Recently, I've struggled with depression, and it's been weird to see how I have lost that strength to be able to smile and persevere but to instead hide and curl up and cry and feel like a failure. I'm trying to learn to laugh again and see through the pain. It takes a boat load of strength that, some days, you just don't have. Kudos to your hardcore, precious wife!!
Thank you so much for sharing this:)
Oh this made me cry
That's amazing, I can see why you would think happiness is weakness. It's almost like saying why are you so naive about how terrible the world actually is. And yes. It's not all sunshine and rainbows her but you don't have to put your own extra thunder cloud above your head because the people on this world put a few up (if i'm making sense) I love his wife changed his whole perspective jut because she smiled and said that everything would be okay. Goes to show you how much of an effect small things can have on somebody else. I'm happy that he was able to change his mindset. And i genuinely hope he and his wife have an amazing life together with an amazing adopted (boy or girl). <3
This is gold.
I literally sit here & tell people around me that THIS is how you should live. Cause no matter what comes your way, you'll find another way to be happy. You'll see the light in the negative space & grow from & with it. Its sad that kids my age are so quick to cut off their emotions & their hearts & think money will bring them the happiness that they want when thats no where near true at all. Sure it'll help but at the end of the day its whats surrounding you, how you've learned from your mistakes & the joy you choose to bring & have in your life.
I'm so happy for you. Thank you for sharing your story and outlook. (Also, adoption is wonderful; my sister was adopted and I'm so grateful to have her in my life).
Well i took care of my two sons from their birth to five years old because I wanted them to have a decent life even tho their "mom" was absent (still is 10 years later). It was hard being a single dad with two tiny babies but I did think of people like you that has gone thru hell trying to have kids or have kids that have hard lives because of health or other circumstances. I call them The Clones and say I made them in my mom's basement secretly from the government lol They play along. Also I am one of those happy people, IDK I think life was a little bit difficult as a kid so I developed this way to be able to see a positive side, I guess as long as I'm not dead I can possibly see some amount of light for some reason. Awesome video tho, made me think, and write! Yay.
This is so inspirational. Thank youfor this. The guy really knows how to tell a story
Love to you and Jean and your chosen child. ❤️❤️❤️
I started crying while watching this video and we often forget to look at things that seem terrible at first but if we think about it there is always that silver lining to everything. Thank you for making this video as I really needed to hear this.
Great message but I legitimately can't tell if he's telling a serious story. 5 miscarriages? Sounds a bit over the top. Not impossible. But still.
But it's a badass story to tell either way.
that moment series is the best one. thanks SoulPancake!!!
His story was absolutely beautiful!
This is so beautiful. I needed to hear this; thank you SoulPancake, and thank you Sir for sharing your story
It's not easy to make me cry but damn…
WOW! Touching story! Wish him all the happiness in their lives.
This came out on my birthday! I really want to get 100 subscribers for my birthday, could you guys try to help me, please?
Remember to focus on the happiness of all beings, not just you or your group. Sometimes a group's happiness causes pain to another group, which means conflict. Conflict is only going to flourish if everyone is striving for their own personal happiness. If used incorrectly, happiness definitely, undoubtedly one of our biggest weaknesses. Please do not oversimplify things for viewers.
JUST ADOPT if you think there are too many people in the world.
What an amazing couple ☺
This guy needs serious therapy. His anxiety was has difficult to watch, like he was on the verge of breaking down 😔
the title was an instant D'UH? for me so I was a bit guarded watching this but it did crack me real fast 😀 a very heartfelt story ! thank you and i apologize for raising my brow like a snob haha
Had me in tears 😭Thank you God for creating such inspiring people with a beautiful outlook on the world
It's all about perspective,and you really do have the power to turn a bad day into a good day. It may not be the best day but at least you're willing to live your life to the fullest.
seeing the great things despite of pain. that was the bravest thing I know. you inspire me. thank you
I really needed this today. Thank you for sharing your story. I have those who are close to me that view certain traits as weaknesses and those things that I held on to in order to maintain a good outlook on life has truly started to falter as they've tried to drag me into their mindset, increasing my anxiety and battles with depression. I know that you can have a genetic predispostion for these things and they can be triggered in your life by the people, events, and tragedies that happen. I had triumphed and pulled myself through so much until the last few years because of the constant barrage of words that my hope, my willingness to see the best in others, my empathy, etc., was a weakness. I had and still have a different view on life and people, but the ability to maintain it has been the battle because I'm reminded that I'm broken somehow for giving people a chance and that what I've come through is something that doesn't matter. I think that your video reminded me that it's not necessarily the term happiness as much as it is a positive outlook towards others and towards the things you go through, despite the faults of the world, the broken system, and others, and that this care and love is not a weakness. I've been on a serious quest to find the old, happy and fun me for quite some time. This short glimpse into your life and thoughts showed me that even my views of my wedding day compared to my husband's view of it (which is close to what you described), tells me that I'm actually stronger and happier than he is. Thank you so much again because in this, you reminded me of my true strengths.
that was a journey … quite the journey.
I don't know how he was able to do this without crying while I'm here, just listening, crying my eyes out. 😭
This piece was written and performed by Brian Finkelstein. To see more of him, check him out on Twitter! @bsfinkelstein
You guys really need to take out that stupid whistle ending. It ruins the moment. It's like a rim shot after some just tells you this heartbreaking story.
This is amazing….something we all should remember.
Why so many misscarriages, is that even possible?
I thought I recognised him! I went to one of Brian's shows here in New Zealand a few years ago, when I had just started university. He told a great story about pain and loss, but also of how we have to find the rare perfect moments in life. I didn't know it at the time, but his story and advice were about to become very relevant and important to me.
Things are better now, but when times are tough I remember that things can be awful, but that sometimes we experience perfect moments of happiness. And that's enough.
Cheers Brian, and thanks SoulPancake!
I cri evertiem
Glad to know that republicans is why your first miscarriage happened. Sad/happy story, good story teller but believe it or not we are not the root of your problems.
So inspirational and beautiful. That helps me a lot to see the world 🌏 from a different perspectiv. 🌈🌕⚡❤
Does anyone know the piano music in the background
This is absolutely beautiful. Although… I do wonder why is it that Americans speak so fast. It took some adjusting to follow what he was saying
This was so beautiful, thank you for sharing 🤗
I just posted my own Miscarriage story on my Youtube. The pain is so unreal, thank you for this.
I'm so sorry . I know you probably don't want this sympathy but I am sorry for you . Congratulations on. Great life out look though
"I´m not crying, you are crying"- me sobbing
That just ripped my soul out.
these videos are beautiful. really makes you stop and appreciate life. thank you, brian
Beautiful, inspiring and very moving <3This video doesn't have enough views.
I just love crying my eyes out on the bus. Or at my desk. Or in the toilet at work.
Wherever I watch these, I know I'm probably going to cry. This one had me in tears, then crying, then sobbing so hard I couldn't breath.
I wish Mr. Finkelstein and his wife Jean all the happiness in the world.
And Brian, you might have won, but we all won because you shared your story. Thank you ~
It made me cry… your view of the world is amazing.. wish you the best….
"named Kale, with a K, for real…" omg
He is amazing! All the best
His views mirror that of the character Mike from All in the Family…
His friends are bad parents that why so many Americans feel like they own everything and are asshole that push their ideals on everyone. You can’t even say no to them so they are going to be weak minded people and the world is going to eat them alive
I'm adopted from China, and I love that you and your wife are going to give a child a good home! Thank you. 🙂
WOW..that was beautiful.
So heartfelt and beautifully said Brian Finkelstein!❤️
We laughed at double complete rainbow because he was high AF.
God bless you and Jean. You're each other's Other.
technically, it's not "You're Having a Miscarriage" it's your wife… the title is… wildly incorrect
i just stalked them and found out they had a son named bruce in january
Wow, my best friend had a miscarriage and she sees the world just like you do. It's been very hard for her…I hope when she gets pregnant and has a baby I can show her this video. (
my heart goes out to you man
Cried the ENTIRE time
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